Five Love Languages and Boudoir Photos

If you don’t know about the book the “Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman, I strongly encourage you to get a copy. I will be covering most of his categories here, but only with how they relate to boudoir photos.

Your Self Worth Is More Than You Think

I was listening to a podcast from Darren Rowse and he made a great point about failure and how we define ourselves as people. Self esteem has been debunked in the psychological community but persists in the popular vernacular. I think self worth is a reasonable substitute to work with for our purposes. We wrongly […]

Making Seductive Photos Look Good

Boudoir photography has moved from the fringe to the main stream. That means more women trying to pull of sexy and sultry looks who don’t have years of modeling experience. Believe it or not, every woman can look sexy. Here are 5 tips to getting sexy looks for seductive photos, even if you have #rbf. […]

Ultimate Selfie: DIY Boudoir

A boudoir photo of a woman in a red dress sitting on a pool table gently caressing her lover while he lines up his shot. Captured by Reno, NV photographer, Red Silk Photos.

You are thinking about doing a boudoir session but you don’t know if you want to hire a photographer yet. Here are several tips to help you do a DIY Boudoir session yourself. This is the ultimate selfie.

7 Perfect Movies for Valentine’s Date Night

It is a chore finding a movie both my wife and I life. I, like most guys, am an action movie fan. My wife, well, she’s more Lifetime (boring). Unless you are the lucky woman who found a sappy romantic who cries at Bambi, it can be a real chore to find a movie you […]

10 Best Striptease Songs

Seductive photo of a woman in a little black dress captured by Sparks boudoir photographer, Red Silk Photos.

Valentine’s day is quickly approaching and you want to do something special for your man. There are things that make a song good to strip too. First, a good solid medium paced beat. Second, a decent set of lyrics. Choosing a song that is too fast or too slow can kill the mood pretty quickly. […]

Perfect Valentine’s Date Night – Bakersfield Edition

Can you picture what your ideal date night would look like? Would it involve dinner, a movie? Obviously you have to get hair and makeup done. What about lingerie? What if I gave you the perfect formula for a Valentines Date night, or any date night for that matter? Step 1.) Pick Your Lingerie I […]